My Barriers to Growth

Growth is an evidence of life.
When I think about growth, I think about how there is “old” growth and “new” growth.
Old growth is like the trunk of a tree that continues to get bigger around with more bark every year but is a growth that is hardly noticeable except when it gets really old and is obviously a big tree; and that is really all that is said about it “that’s a big tree!”. Old growth was once “new” growth but has now become hardened with age and it’s glory has faded into the past. It now becomes the home of insects and parasites, another part of the food chain. “Old” growth has an important role to play in the “new” growth that the “new” growth is dependent upon. The “old” growth provides resources, protection and stability for new growth that is vulnerable. The “old” growth provides wisdom of how to weather the storms and challenges that the “new” growth will encounter.

New growth is where the fruit happens. In my garden, I look for the new growth, the evidence that the plant is healthy. I planted things for the new growth, for the flora, for the fruit. Where the old growth is sentimental to the heart the new growth brings joy to the heart.

Both are necessary for the fruit to set on, but some “old” growth trees support very little new growth and bear little fruit. My life is a combination of both “new” growth and “old” growth...

What keeps me from developing new growth?
Here are 10 things that can be barriers to my growth

1. New growth is costly -
        growth requires time and resources
        have to be willing to pay the price

2. new growth takes attention
        have to think about new growth
        new growth needs nurturing
        the inclination is to focus on “old” growth that will not produce

3. New growth takes intentionality and planning
        I have to make room for new growth
        I have to anticipate the requirements of the growth

4. New growth takes work
        I have to do something if I want to grow. New growth takes change
        I have to do things differently
        respond to a changing environment / culture

5. People around me can limit my growth
        growing people help people grow
        positive people help people grow
        informed people help people grow
        
6. Loneliness limits growth
        little grows in a vaccuum -
        too inward focused

7. Information can keep me from growing
        not knowing what to do leads to bad decisions
        wrong information leads to wrong decisions
        
8. Perspective can keep me from growing
        desiring stability and security over joy
        desiring comfort and ease produces little fruit

9. Unrealistic expectations will hinder growth
        expecting a forest to spring out of a desert - over night
        discouragement is a growth killer

10. More fear than faith
        fear of failing - loosing sight of future growth
        not taking time to hear from God
        unwilling to respond to God

Comments

Rubye Dacon said…
Jerry, this is very thoughtful and thorough--the perspective of a horticulturist and a pastor. Thank you for these helpful and challenging words. Rubye

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